How to Capture Natural Moments with Photography
Capturing milestone moments, smiles and eye contact is of course important, but one of the things that gives me the greatest pleasure is capturing children, my own in particular, just as they are.
Yesterday was Jackâ€™s second birthday and I happened to capture a series of photos that illustrates this approach to photographing your kids that I think works perfectly.
We had a busy day. After dropping his older brother off at school, we spent the morning at the local childrenâ€™s museum, heading home for lunch with my parents and then nap time. I knew after the nap weâ€™d be heading right out again to pick up his brother so I delayed nap time in order to get some rare one-on-one time playing and taking photos.
Because of the limited time, and as a bit of an experiment, I did something I NEVER do (and always recommend against) which isâ€¦ I asked him to smile!
Note that I did not ask him to say cheese but he did anyway, so ingrained is this in how people around him take photos even if it isnâ€™t how I do! Also, I do sometimes ask him to smile when I donâ€™t have the camera out because he has a really cute â€śput onâ€ť smileâ€”but this was not it.
So instead I took my usual approach that I teach, which is to get natural smiles and eye contactÂ byÂ interacting naturally from behind the camera. In this case, I tickled him under the chin (he LOVES this right now!) and then he started poking my face so I would do a big grand over-reaction which just made him crack up more.
The result, as you can see, is not only a much more natural and heart warming smile, but also theexperience and memory of a real and more meaningful interaction.
Having captured the birthday portrait I wanted, I let Jack take the lead for a few more minutes before popping him into bed for naptime, and he quickly became engrossed in playing with his trains. And thatâ€™s when I captured the photo I ultimately shared on my personal facebook page as THE photo that I loved the most as the ultimate portrait of Jack on his second birthday.
As I said, itâ€™s the moments like these that I get the most satisfaction out of capturingâ€”the moments where a child is just exactly who they are, and Iâ€™m just there along for the ride.
This holiday season, amidst the bustle and excitement of the big moments weâ€™ve all been waiting for, donâ€™t forget to stay connected to your kids and to look for the transcendent moments that you could never stageâ€”or even predict.
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Alethea Cheng Fitzpatrick is a family photographer and photography coach for parents with Photosanity. A former architect and interior designer, she lives in Brooklyn with her husband and her two boys Liam, age six, and Jack, age three.
Alethea is on a mission to help parents more fully experience the precious fleeting moments of their childrenâ€™s lives through photography. Find her on http://photosanity.com